Unknown Papi

A Coversation

by UnknownMami on October 3, 2011

Unknown Papi: Babe, how do I make (fill in the blank with something he is perfectly capable of making on his own without asking me)?

Unknown Mami:You’re a man figure it out.

Put Pie (she’s 3): Noooo, he no man…he a papa!

Unknown Papi and Unknown Mami burst into laughter.

Wisdom from a 3 year old. What’s the saying?

Out of the mouths of babes oft times come gems.

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Sundays In My City

by UnknownMami on June 18, 2011

I grew up without a father and never once felt deprived because I had no idea what I was missing.

Now I know.
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One of the greatest joys in my life is watching my beautiful daughters being loved, protected, celebrated, and cherished by their father.

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He will always be the very best choice I ever made for them.

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Happy Father’s Day from San Francisco, CA to all the wonderful fathers out there. The world is better because of you and so are your children.

 

I showed you mine, now show me yours.

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Let’s travel the world together!

Unknown Mami
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Produce Gone Wild!

by UnknownMami on June 6, 2011

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Don’t you hate it when your tomatoes go and grow mold flattops before you get a chance to eat them?

 

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P.S. Unknown Papi looked a lot like this tomato when he was in the 7th grade.

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My Husband the Feminist Pt. 2

by UnknownMami on May 12, 2011

What is up with my husband? I swear he is going out of his way to make me fall in love with him all over again. Yesterday, I wrote about one of the reasons why he is perfect for me, it involved him deciding that trying to join the Masons was not for him. Well, today he sent me a copy of the thank you email he sent and I am so darned proud of him I asked for permission to print it.

Thank you so much for inviting me to the lodge. I had a nice time and everyone was kind and friendly. After my visit I gave the idea of joing some thought and decided it was not for me. The issue I have is that it is a fraternity. I knew this going in but didn’t realize the cost of this practice until I left. I just can’t be part of any organization that excludes anyone based on sex, race, sexual orientation, etc.

The Masons helped my family by fixing my brothers legs at Shriner’s Hospital and I will never forget that. The Masons do great work and I hope they can continue to do great work for another 400 years. And, maybe, just maybe, one day they will consider the openheartedness, courage, and brilliance a woman can contribute.

Sincereley,
Unknown Papi

I love him. Seriously, reading the last line of his email makes me cry. I married the man who wrote, “And, maybe, just maybe, one day they will consider the openheartedness, courage, and brilliance a woman can contribute.” Sigh…my husband the feminist.

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My Husband the Feminist

May 11, 2011

My marriage is not perfect. Whose is? Liars that’s who. My marriage is beautiful, trying, frustrating at times, fun, challenging, exciting when not mundane. It is all these things and so much more. When I met the man that was to become my husband and the father of my children he was barely 21 years [...]

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Calgon, Take me Away!

October 27, 2010

Do you remember the Calgon “take me away” ads? I do. I thought they were a pretty safe cultural reference, sort of like  “No one puts baby in the corner”, but I guess I was wrong. My husband is younger by 6 years and I guess that is enough of a difference for him not [...]

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Sundays In My City

June 12, 2010

Close your eyes, Have no fear, The monsters gone, He’s on the run and your daddy’s here, Beautiful, Beautiful, beautiful, Beautiful [Girl], Before you go to sleep, Say a little prayer, Every day in every way, It’s getting better and better, Beautiful, Beautiful, beautiful, Beautiful [Girl], Out on the ocean sailing away, I can hardly [...]

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Another Conversation

June 2, 2010

Conversation between Unknown Papi and Unknown Mami: Unknown Mami: I had weird dreams last night. Did you? Unknown Papi: Not really, they weren’t realistic, but not weird. Unknown Mami: What do you mean? Unknown Papi: I mean, I wasn’t fighting aliens with peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Unknown Mami: Oh……………………. I’m gonna blog this.  Disclaimer: [...]

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Cruisin’ for Daddies

June 1, 2010

My husband takes care of our daughter one day a week while I go work outside of the home. It’s a win-win situation for me: I get to interact with adults alone one day a week and my husband has empathy for me the rest of the week. Usually when Unknown Papi watches Put Pie, they [...]

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Another Conversation or Why Did the Chicken Cross the Road?

May 18, 2010

One night, not so long ago,  Unknown Papi and Unknown Mami lay in bed together. Unknown Papi brought up eggs. Unknown Mami doesn’t know much about eggs except that she eats them regularly. Unknown Papi wanted to know if the eggs that they eat would turn into chickens if they were left to their own [...]

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